Live indie & rock for the Grade I-listed Elizabethan manor near East Grinstead. From £1,900.
Gravetye Manor sits at West Hoathly, near East Grinstead in West Sussex. The Elizabethan house was built in 1598 by Richard Infield (an ironmaster) for his bride. It’s Grade I listed, with the gardens separately Grade II*- listed in the Register of Historic Parks and Gardens. The gardens are the layout of William Robinson, the influential landscape gardener and author of The English Flower Garden, who lived at Gravetye from 1884 until his death in 1935. Today it runs as a one-Michelin-star country house hotel set in 1,000 acres.
We’re a Hampshire-based live wedding band that covers West Sussex and East Sussex regularly, so Gravetye sits comfortably inside our home patch. No travel surcharges, no overnight accommodation, no anxious 4am drives back from the wrong end of the country.
Gravetye’s reception spaces have the kind of period finish that doesn’t need help. Our stage setup is built to dress around the room rather than fight it. Black-finished kit, restrained on-stage lighting rather than a stadium rig, and a PA sized for the room rather than the road. We dress in stage-blacks unless you ask otherwise.
A Gravetye wedding tends to pull a guest list that’s travelled in from London for the weekend, with a Sussex and home-counties core. The setlist flexes accordingly: Arctic Monkeys, The Killers and Kings of Leon for the late floor, Oasis and Stereophonics for the mid-evening, modern-pop crossover (Harry Styles, Dua Lipa, Sam Fender) layered through for the chart-aware younger guests. Wedding non-negotiables (Mr Brightside, Don’t Stop Me Now, Sweet Caroline) take the back-half peaks. Between sets a DJ playlist (collaborated with you) keeps the floor moving. We learn one custom first dance per booking.
Curfews, sound rules and any in-house production arrangements at Gravetye are managed by the venue’s own wedding team, and they vary by booking. A Grade I-listed house with heritage gardens is one of the more careful briefs we play. We don’t make assumptions. We confirm the specific cut-off, limiter setup and any house rules with the wedding coordinator the week before, and pace the closing set so it lands at the actual end of the night.
If you’re booking Gravetye Manor and want a band that turns up briefed, properly dressed and with the dance floor firmly in mind, send us your date. We’d love to be on your shortlist.
Backbeat is an independent wedding band and is not affiliated with, endorsed by or a preferred supplier of Gravetye Manor. Venue specifics should be confirmed with the venue’s wedding team directly.
From £1,900
Live sets · full PA & lighting · DJ between & after
Public liability insured · PAT-tested annually · Sound-limiter ready
Backbeat plays across Sussex, Surrey and the wider South. A snapshot of other well-known wedding venues within about an hour of East Grinstead. If yours isn’t here, tell us anyway.
South Lodge
Lower Beeding
Wiston House
Steyning
Buxted Park
Buxted
Cowdray House
Midhurst
Amberley Castle
Amberley
Bailiffscourt
Climping
Beaverbrook
Leatherhead
Pennyhill Park
Bagshot
Venue names are used for descriptive reference. Backbeat is an independent wedding band and is not affiliated with, endorsed by or a preferred supplier of any venue listed unless stated.
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Live music packages from £1,900. Pricing depends on event location, performance duration, and specific requirements. Send us your event details for a tailored quote.
We perform across Hampshire, Dorset, Surrey and beyond. Whether your event is across the country or abroad, we're ready to bring live performance to you.
We require a minimum of 90 minutes to load in and set up. Ideally before your guests enter the performance room, but we're skilled at setting up quietly and efficiently with minimal disruption.
Yes. We'll collaborate with you to create a personalised DJ playlist for before, between and after our live sets. Whether you have a specific genre, a list of favourite songs, or a Spotify playlist, we'll take care of the rest.
Yes. We offer a 60-minute acoustic live-lounge duo set, ideal for setting the ambiance during drinks reception or dinner.
Yes. We use high-quality, PAT-tested equipment for top-notch sound and lighting. The band is fully self-contained, and we're experienced with sound-limiter venues.
Absolutely. As part of our service we'll learn a special song at no extra cost, whether it's your first dance or a standout main-set moment. Let us know and we'll include it.